.But what Astrid does not understand but is a truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that possesses two sons-- can easily verify: The simple fact that your partnership along with your parents improvements as well as evolves as you each get older, as well as hopefully for the better. "Your world centers around [your kids] when they're little ones [and also] it's so much job but attractive," O'Hara points out. "Later, you really skip that, because after that you can not obtain all of them to perform just about anything you prefer them to accomplish, because they start establishing their personal minds, their very own opinions." And eventually, you wind up in the area O'Hara, whose sons are in their 20s as well as 30s, locates herself right now, able to pick up from her kids. "They are actually merely such great youthful individuals," she points out. "I'm not their colleague, but I like having talks along with them as well as learning more about exactly how they deal with life.".